How to become more productive when it's just not your strength

People-oriented individuals are often highly skilled in building relationships and communicating effectively with others, but can sometimes struggle with staying focused on tasks and achieving their goals. Two out of the four personality types profiled by the Christian DISC® are people-oriented, (rather than task-oriented). This isn't a bad thing, just a natural inclination that has its strengths and weaknesses (or areas to grow). Being too focused on others can sometimes cause people-oriented individuals to overlook the importance of getting things done, which can lead to a lack of productivity and efficiency in both their personal and professional lives.

If you are a people-oriented person who wants to become more focused, task-oriented, and productive, there are several steps you can take to develop these skills:

1. Set clear goals: Start by setting clear, measurable goals for yourself. Break down larger goals into smaller, more manageable tasks and create a plan to accomplish them. This can help you to stay focused and on track. If you have trouble doing this on your own, consider asking a co-worker or friend to help you chart this out. A counselor or coach can also help you in this area.
   
   
2. Prioritize tasks: Prioritize your tasks based on their importance and urgency. Consider which tasks will have the greatest impact on achieving your goals and focus on those first. See if any of your tasks can incorporate opportunities to collaborate with others in the process.
   
   
3. Develop time management skills: Develop effective time management skills to help you stay on track with your tasks. Use tools like calendars and to-do lists to help you stay organized and focused. Be patient with yourself as you develop skills in this area.
   
   
4. Practice self-discipline: Self-control is a Fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23). Practice self-discipline to help you stay on track and avoid distractions. This may involve setting boundaries for your time and energy and avoiding time-wasting activities. If you have others in your life who are more task-oriented, ask if they are willing and able to keep you accountable in this area.
   
   
5. Seek out learning opportunities: Seek out opportunities to learn new skills and expand your knowledge in areas related to your goals. This can help you to become more knowledgeable and effective in achieving your goals. Are there any books that can help inspire you and keep you focused?
   
   
6. Celebrate successes: Celebrate your successes and progress along the way. Talk about your process with friends and those around you. This can help to motivate you to continue moving forward and achieving your goals.
   
   

Becoming more focused, task-oriented, and productive is a valuable skill for people-oriented individuals to develop. By setting clear goals, prioritizing tasks, developing time management skills, practicing self-discipline, seeking out learning opportunities, and celebrating successes, you can become more effective in achieving your goals and staying on track with your tasks.

​This can be hard when you are naturally a relational, social, and people-oriented person, but understand that developing these skills can actually allow you to not only get things done, but even help other people in the process.